Is not a freeloader at all! Woot! Woot! I'm not going to go into major details. Guess what blog-o-world! It is none of your beeswax!!!!!
He is quite the catch.
I'm also sorry for calling him a weirdo. He was just trying to talk to me over the phone. Although, he made a bad joke as an excuse to talk.
I'll leave it as we had a great time! It is great to know NOT all guys are jerks!
I really enjoyed our "hang out."
Why was this not a "date?"
What is the difference between a "hang out" and "date"?
I had this discussion with a manager at work. It stuck with me.
A guy who is SERIOUS about you will ask you to DINNER. Simple as that.
Was I expecting that? No definitely not for now! I barely know the guy! For the first meeting, coffee or drinks is perfectly fine. Dinner has more weight than drinks or coffee on your level of seriousness.
He also said I give off the independent vibe as usual. What is wrong with that men/boys? Every rap and hip-hop song sings about independent women. Then if I was clingy they would run as well! I don't need any analysis on this. Guys find this intimidating. Combine independence with my major and that equals the recipe for afraid men.
Lesson of the night: Don't ever just listen to a guy's words. His actions must speak louder than his words. This guy's actions have proven to be highly impressive in a weird sort of way. Who looks you up in the phonebook for crying out out? The Non-Freeloader is that type of man!
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
You leave our readers hanging! This is a blog! You have to dish out! At least explain what impressed you. Perhaps some guys can learn from this! I think that is nice he went through the trouble to look you up through the phone book. A little stalkerish, but nice. At least he didn't find you on Facebook! You guys should date.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you that a dinner or day date is more serious. However, I have been to many dinners and the guy ended up being a non-commiter! He was not serious! I think it depends on the guy's personality and how comfortable they are. Some take a while to warm up and they prefer that fun, loud atmosphere. It loosens them up. But dates can't always be to the bar!