Ugh the score is now 1-2 guys

Guy: Whatcha you have in plan for the weekend?

First of all is that even English?
I will not respond!!! Ugh the guys are beating me now with last comments score 2-1 :(

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Age it is just a number part 2

Refer to the first age blog for more details...
You think he would catch on I have a dating blog and to leave me alone!! No he is NOT that smart...

Guy: Hey how was the 4th? (Notice who made the first comment before your harassment starts! Your man!)
Me: Great who is this? (I don't have this guys number or save it for that matter.)
Guy: This is Romeo. (haha he wishes)
Me: You are in trouble! I have your girlfriend texting me stuff! To defriend you off Facebook and leave you alone. I'd prefer you do not contact me. I do not want to bother with that drama.
Guy: Is it her or someone else? (The most this guy ever committed to statement about a girlfriend)
Me: I sent our convos and the number this person called me on...
Him: I have to explain to you one day... Me: What is there to explain? Either you have a girlfriend or you don't!!!!

Score update: Disbeliever 2
"Guys" 1

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Beach boy

So I met this guy probably almost a month ago! He wanted to hang out. He was going to come to the beach to hang out, but never quite made it..
I erased his number immediately. I should stop doing that because then I get like ahhhh who and the f is this? It becomes the ultimate mystery every time.

Here is the convo:

Guy: Hey wassup
(As if it is normal! I haven't heard from this guy for roughly a month!)
Me: hello?
Guy: The last time we talked we left it on a bad note. I just want to see how it is going and how are things with you
Me: Yes we did! I guess the other girl you found at the beach didn't work out for you? My friend saw you by the bathrooms with her. (He was supposed to be on the way to meet with me!)
Guy: I have bad reception with my phone. But excuse me? I'm confused.
I never stepped foot on the beach that day. (Maybe because he was on the boardwalk.) I parked my car and waited for you to respond back. You seemed to catch an attitude with me. That is when I sent you that text and decided to leave. That wasn't me your friend saw and that's no lie.
Me: Ok (Let me have the last word! Please! Pretty please! Pathetic.)

Dead ringer he is lying when he says that's no lie. If you were telling the truth you wouldn't feel the need to say that you are not lying!

Guys who have the last word-2
I have the last word-1

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The texting continues!

Guy: I guess you're still mad.

Me: Why would I be mad over that? I'm happy you saved me a lot of time because I saw who you are as a person right away.

Guy: I almost never get drunk but ok. Are you saying we will never hang out?

Me: Yes that is what I'm saying

Guy: That sucks

Me: I didn't like anything you said to me! You ignored me... And you were completely shitfaced! You have to be expecting this! Come on! lol

Guy: Ok your right. So every time someone acts inappropriate u take them out of your lives. Pretty soon u will be lonely because everyone acts inappropriate. One day u will act inappropriate n I would never shut u out of my life but I would forgive. (How holy of him!)

Me: Wow valid point. I guess have a counselor here now on my hands! It is easy to remove you from my life because we only hung out twice. The last time does not count because you were not mentally present. You do not see this as a red flag? Why did you drink so much?

Him: I usually don't go out to bars to drink. So I'm not used to it. Plus I got over happy because you n my friends people I like being around where all in the same place for once. I learned my lesson next time it will be different I've even considered not drinking.

Me: Yes you should do that not consider it. Especially if you can't handle your drinks and run around like a crazy nut.

Him: Thanks

Me: Your welcome

Him: What are you doing?

Me: Getting ready to watch fireworks

Him: Have fun

This happened today
Him: Want to chill later? (This was at 9:52pm! So how much is later!)

Me: Yes what time is good for you 12am come on now! Get real!

Him: Goodbye

Me: More like good riddance! Finally

Him: LOL!

Damit I will leave it at that! I so want and crave the last word though. It is annoying because I think we both are craving the last word! I want it more! I should send. :) Does that count as a last word? I will count it! I need the LAST WORD! I crave it!

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Shit or get off the pot

Over the years, I've had several friends find themselves with crushes on me.  It's bound to happen--you get to know each other very well, so it happens.  But many times with these guys I've not had any feelings in return, and it makes the friendship quite awkward.

Alas, such is the case with one friend now.  We've been friends for many years, so I know him about as well as I ever will.  I like our friendship, but have zero interest in anything beyond that.  He, however, has become progressively more attached, at times clingy and smothering to the point that makes me very uncomfortable.  Most of the time I avoid it and ignore it, afraid of saying something that will hurt his feelings or our friendship.  But the smothering is really rather irritating.

What to do?  I realize it's a difficult situation for him, too, as there may not be an easy way out of the situation.  But what is he expecting to happen?  I have been the person in the past who crushes from afar, and will say that it goes nowhere and is a slow form of torture.  Shit or get off the pot, please.  Either go for it and ask me out, or get over it.  Yes, if he went for it I would turn him down, but from his perspective, how is sitting on the fence fun?  Wouldn't you rather know where things stand, and if it isn't going to happen, find a way sooner rather than later to get over it and move on?  There's a lot of life ahead of us all, and I don't think it's fun to waste it pining away for someone who isn't going to return anything.  We all deserve more than that.  I know this from experience.

Trying to stay positive,

Skeptic

(P.S. Please do not speculate about who this is.  I highly doubt any of the readers of this blog would know him.)

I was still recovering but I but please but...

I would almost rather have heard nothing at this point! Let's see how long he continues to contact me... I'll keep you guys posted

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Age! It's just a number

Up until about the age of 23-25ish I used to believe people would become more and more mature... sadly this is not true at all!

Today I received a text: stop texting so and so boyfriend (insert name here) they have been living together in (insert town here) she sees what you write. Get off his Facebook too thank you.

My response: This must be either so and so or so and so's daughter. (I figure it is a kid with such an immature message.) First of all your mom or you needs a better man! He is sending me messages after every race! Nothing happened between us EVER! Please do not bother me with such non sense and get a better man you deserve it. The only person who owes you anything Is your man, but he denies having a girlfriend... I refuse to be attacked in this manner. If these attacks continue my next steps would be to alert the authorities. Thank you.

Haha I find this funny, pathetic, and sad... I'd rather be single for life than ever feel the need to send out text messages to every woman you think your man is sneaking around on you with! I'm so happy I will never have this situation in life! They say never say never, but if I thought for one second my guy was cheating on me I would be out! That is it! You do not have a relationship without trust! Why even bother? What a waste of time! Time is ticking away.....

I joined a running club to run not be bothered with nonsense!

Thank you.

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