So the Journalist and I have exchanged numbers and emails, and have been trying to arrange a time/date and activity for our first date. Well, I assume it's a date.
I'm currently stuck in the place where I have a cell phone like most people that gives me email, so I know right away when he emails me (or texts). And I really do not believe in rules or games, because if he really is the right guy for me he won't care when I get back to him (and if we got married, looking back, details like that won't matter). BUT. There's still this little voice in side me that says, "don't write back right away! Let him sweat it out for a little while!" I HATE that voice. I HATE games/rules. It's shit like this that's why I hate dating--I'd rather skip all this bullshit horse and pony show and just get to dating someone seriously and regularly. You know that cozy place where you know you're going to see each other every weekend and it's all cuddly and happy. Can I just skip to that?
Anyway, if we ever get this stuff figured out, I might have a date this weekend. Will be very interesting to see how this goes! Long time in the making (about 4 months, but who's counting?).
Trying to stay positive,
Skeptic
I'm with you, I LOATHE those rules/guidelines. Shouldn't someone who actually likes me be happy to hear from me? I know that when I like someone, hearing from them right away is exciting and invigorating. If I'm meh on them, it can feel cloying. It all just depends on how things are going!
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