So I took a blog hiatus for a bit, but I'm back in full force.
Congrats to (insert your name here). You made the blog!
First of all, never tell a guy you're "seeing", "chillen with", "kicking it to", "dating", or "hanging out with" that you have a dating blog.
They become super paranoid.
So we met at Shannon Rose. He impressed me because apparently he met me before and remembered every single detail. He also impressed me that for our first hang out we went RUNNING. I <3 me a runner. We then chilled after our run that night at this really happening new bar he introduced me to.
Yada... Yada...Yada.... So then our next hang out was at Starbucks. He paid with a giftcard. Which is questionable, but whatever. I picked up on the 46 cents that the giftcard did not cover!!!! Then we went for drinks later during that week. He accepts the 10 bucks I put in for the $15 bill!
So why is this guy calling me a gold digger?
As far as I'm concerned we are EVEN Steven!!! He paid more at Starbucks. I paid more for the drinks. I am totally an independent woman in that I make my own. I bought everything I own from my education, to my car, and the clothes on my back..and so on you get the point. In the near future I'll buying my OWN condo and living solo at this rate because dating sucks!
I feel guys lost the idea when it comes to dating. Yes, I make my own money, but it is still nice to be taken on a date once in a while. Whatever happened to that? Even if it is just to the freaken movies!
So when you wonder why you haven't been hearing from me, that is my answer.
I'm not a gold digger and my dog is not the ulimate cock block!
<3 "K" the disbeliver disbelieving 24/7
Rule No.1 of the blog: Thou shalt not disclose blog to dates.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, this kid is a youngin.'
On first dates, the guy has to pay. If he doesn't then he is not serious. I also expect him to treat me occassionally. It may be old fashioned, but I want to bring chivalry back to life. I know a guy that never let any girl pay-- I was not even dating him. But he liked me.
The context of the gold digger label is unclear. You have had to given him some indication in your conversation that made him think of you as a gold digger. Maybe what you said or how you acted gave him the clue to split the tab instead of him paying. It was probably so slight that you did not notice it, but he pick up on.
It's good that you are independent as in if you want something, you get it yourself. You have a history of paying for your assets and seem to take pride in that you can afford these things. But then you felt shot down when he did not pay for you, so there's a contradiction. Perhaps you are so used to this pattern that it carries over to dating. Maybe he got the vibe that you can handle it or that you wanted to pay for it yourself.
....Maybe he got the vibe that you can handle it or that you wanted to pay for it yourself..... Hm true then maybe I should just date myself...
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