I'll try not to stay here for tooo long. It is just a brief visit, but I want to get it out in the open in the bloggy world.
First off the Billionaire is trying to circle back again after a month.
How do I feel about this? I feel that if he really liked me he would have tried harder and not let a month go by. Maybe it is my fault though for making things "difficult." I never reached out to him. He brought this up. I never reached out because our first date talk was all about how much money he has. Ok just give me your credit card and let me spend it! I just texted him "hi." Haha that is it! Let the games begin. I want to see his response. If he responds at all. Ok now I have a convo going on. After about a half an hour. I came back to this.
Me: Hi
Him: Hi Love
Me: (I ignored the love part. I hate guys that try to force closeness when it is not there! Maybe if we hooked up, but we didnt!) Just tired from work.
Him: Same here.
Me: Why did you go missing for a month? (I figure got nothing to loose. Maybe I can give girls some insight here.)
Him: I asked the same question to you. (HaHa well my father taught me never to answer a question with another question. Apparently his father didn't do the same.)
Him: What matters is that we are back in touch.
Me: You probably had another chick. (I really feel it is this! No response. I sent this at 10:25... Hmm do I look insecure? O well... I'll wait on a response. Warning. I can be waiting forever. It is now 11 p.m.! Nothing!)
My "strong potential" from January 29th's post turned out to be a strong loser. I think I last heard from him Monday. Tuesday I had a funeral to go to. I thought maybe later that night we could catch a movie to cheer me up. I brought up the idea to him about it. His reply: "I'm going to see if a Brazillian friend of mine wants to go. I'll see if she wants to go. I'll get back to you." My response was just OK. That was it. Can you believe it?! The week before his friend from Puerto Rico was out. I feel like he has a Spanish congo line of friends.
Do you think men of a certain ethnic background fall into crazier than most? I do! I won't list the group here, but I'm sure you can tell. These guys advise you when you don't seek anyone's advice. For example last week I had a guy tell me you should shake your ass more when I was dancing! Does your wife know you're watching me shake MY ASS when I'm dancing? I should tell her! Then one I dated told me his mother was going to the hospital. I asked him about it later and he said his mother was not at the hospital. He looked super confused about it. A lot of shady stuff going down. It is like a hamster wheel of "coo-coo- craziness!" I do feel like it is a constant cycle. Keep your lies straight. Might I add they are also terrible communicators! If someone asks to speak with you, do it. Stop avoiding situations and man up! If you have a wife you can not have a girlfriend! At least not me. I'm 27 years old/ no kids/ no drama. I don't need you to add drama to my list! Maybe I should try a "nice" Polish guy now! HaHaHa!
I had someone ask me the question about what to do in an unhappy marriage. First of all I'm no expert, but if you ask I shall tell. First get a good counselor. Decide if you both will attend counseling together. Is their a marriage to save? Maybe you just need to work harder at this point in your marriage.
Do you even want to try to work things out? If the answer is no, then go to counseling for yourself. It can help you sort out your feelings. Reasons not to stay together: finances/ the kids.
Your money/ Her money. Not your problem anymore.
Plus kids don't want two unhappy people co-existing just for them. They can tell! You can be completely single in a year and ready to date again. Plus you both might be happier and better off single. Then and only then should you be thinking about attending dating events. Once you feel truely ready, make some type of decision though because why go though life unhappy?
I just went over some of my dating history. It is all negative, depressing, whiney and bitchy! Maybe this is why I'm single... HaHa~ I would love to post more postive on here. I realize I have to make it happen. I really really want to go to speed dating now. I'm looking at the 1st, 2nd or 4th weekend of March sometime. Other then that, I'm pretty booked. I have to plan to go on a speed date super soon! Or I will plan some Living Social event. I'm happy they seem to be getting invovled in a lot more now. That is also a great way to meet people. *Sigh*
Also any guy that doesn't get me flowers on February 14th I will not talk to anymore! Flowers and chocolates actually! :)
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There's a lot going on here! :)
ReplyDelete-Billionaire is an idiot, I say leave him alone! But those games can be fun, just to "test" theories.
-The men of a "certain" ethnicity... I steer clear from. They are flowery and full of promises...plus, too cheesy for me.
-Also, these "ethnic" men: there's one who is a waiter at a bar I often go to and he used to be very flirty and handsy. I noticed his wedding ring and called him out on it. Shady.
-I'm not into flowers and chocolates...too generic. I want something thoughtful and personal to me! Not something he could buy his wife and his mistress too :P
Good luck on speed dating! I tried it once and didn't have much luck - a lot of the men were shy and socially awkward. Have you tried meetup.com?
Hmmm I can see speed dating being awkward!!! It is an experience though!!! I can't believe the wedding ring story!!! How terrible! At least we are not married to "THAT"!!!
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