626

Are there any faithful guys out there?

I got a secret message from a bartender at a place that I go to a lot. He added me on Facebook after my post on his bar’s wall that said the bartenders should get a raise for giving me ice for my injured leg. I was running near the bar (not to get sangria) and I hurt my foot so I went to get ice. It was nice of him to give me ice.

The bartender commented on my post and said he hopes he gets a raise and that he’ll see me soon. I said I will be there on Friday. Well, I did not go there on Friday. I went to another place with a patio to drink sangria. Friday came and I did not go. He commented again, saying he did not see me on Friday. I said that I went to another place with a patio to drink sangria, but it was terrible. I told him I will never abandon that bar and that I will be back soon.

He said I had better not abandon him when he is there. I said that I will give him a good tip when I see him. (I did not mean anything sexual.)

Then he adds me as a friend. I noticed that we have the same birthday! I posted that on his wall. I said, “Party at the (bar)!” He said, “Or AC.” Wow!

I stalked his Facebook and saw no sign of a girlfriend. He had a few profile pics with him and some girl from two years ago. I figured they broke up, especially since he did not have a relationship status on his profile.

So far so good. He just graduated with his masters. We share the same birthday. Looks single. So far so good! He is three years younger than me. But whatever. I’ve dated three years younger up to five years older…and they’re still immature and don’t know what they want. 

Then he secret messaged me! Oh boy. Ladies ,beware the secret message! It's shady!

Him:  Rangers yes.. but sore loser no... (on his wall post I said ew that he is a Rangers fan.)

Me: haha ok then...I best be going to sleep. I have to get up in 3 hrs. Ugh -.-

Him: me toooo then work I better see you!!!

Me: haha don’t worry you will! I can never abandon the (bar).

Him: you can’t abandon me when I’m working. That would suck. How old are you?

Me: I am three years older than you.

Him: Not too bad. Lol

Me: Bad for what?!

Him: Three years is nothing lol! AC on 626 (bar) for weekend! I’m down.

Wow he is making plans already!?

Me: I have work on 626. June 22 I am going to NYC.

Him: where is my invite!?

Me: the hotel is already booked.

Him: I get comps, sweetie.

Me: OK well my room is booked!

Him: Nice nice.. well the bar for the weekend! We MUST take a shot together. If we don’t I’ll be upset! Sweet dreams, hun. See you soon.

Aww …

Me: OK bye 626! lol

Him: Patron is my friend! You can have whatever you’d like. It’s on me! 626 for life! Good night. Sleep well.

Me: shot of sangria! lol good night.

Him: Haha

Well that was random. I didn’t know what to make of it.  It was 3 a.m. he probably just got out of work. He probably thinks it’s fate that we have the same birthday. I would love to date a guy with the same birthday. I wonder how that would work! I do not follow astrology, but I wonder what the “stars” would say to this.

What if I dated this guy? I couldn’t bring any other guy to the bar because he works there. If we break up, I can’t go there. I know I’m jumping ahead but I was just thinking. I am not going to reach out unless he does.

Days went by and nothing. Then I see that he was tagged at the beach with a girl whose profile picture includes him! Hmph! Her profile also has “in a relationship”, but no name attached to it.

Shady business!

I should have commented on that. Why doesn’t he have “in a relationship” or pictures of her? I do not think they are just dating. Her profile  is public so I was able to read it, and they commented on a few things. They are def dating.

I should go to that bar. I wonder how he would act. I will even ask him if he has a girlfriend (she is 20 so that gives him the green light to flirt since she can’t legally drink!)

What a disgrace to 626…..

Keepin’ it real,

   Realist