The wrong one for you! How to spot a loser in a crowd filled of possibility

Sharing a good article I read straight from stepping out magazine.

There are certain telltale signs to look for when scoping out a hottie. We have all seen them, why that amazing creature you can't take your eyes off of is not the right one for you. All stars are unfortunates that I have encountered!

*Avoid anyone who is constantly the CENTER of attention
Wish I would have learned this at 20. I would have saved myself a lot of heartache. The ones who know how attractive they are typically won't ever love you as much as you love them. Save yourself an evening of torment and admire then move on.

Avoid anyone who has just been though a break-up
People on the rebound are looking for great sex. It would seem like a perfect set up, right? Wrong! people that just had their hearts broken have no clue what they want. People who have been this wronged can be clingy.

Avoid anyone with a revolving door of friends
You never see them with the same set of friends twice. They always seem to have a new best friend.  People like this are constantly having a fight with someone who has done them wrong. If friends are sooo easily replaced, how do you think they will behave with significant others?

Avoid people who have no opinion
The person who agrees with whatever the last person said in a discussion. If the person you are talking to can not form a soild answer move on! You do not need a relationship that will become an endless guessing game with no communication. That gets old really fast!

Avoid people with low self-esteem
Self esteem comes from within. You can be the encouraging friend, but don't try to be this person's one and only.

*Avoid anyone who's self-obessed
Only so many things can fit in the center of one's person's universe. If that spot is already filled, move on. It is easier to find someone who will worship the ground you walk on than it is to try chasing the one whose ego has never met gravity.

Avoid anyone who gets too personal
Typical first conversation includes weather, food, jokes, movies, work, ambitions, passion, and goals. Anyone who bares their soul to you on a first date has the makings of someone who could really become attached too quickly. The last thing you need is a marriage with no ring!

Most of these qualities you can notice seconds within meeting someone. Some take longer. Why spend extra time pursuing relationships that won't get us there?

<3 The Disbeliever Disbelieving 24/7