My one month mistake

I met this guy in November. Where did we meet? I believe it was a bar.
I don't even remember meeting him sad to say. How did it happen?
WHY did it happen? Don't get me wrong, I wasn't super drunk that I don't remember how we met. It just does not stand out in my mind at all.
So we hung out a few times.
On the first hang out we went running. The second hang out we went to a bar. Then on our third hang out we went to Starbucks. He proceeded to buy us both coffee with a gift card. I am not judging on that factor although I DO find that idea extremely tacky. After, he paid the majority of the bill. The remaining total 48 cents. He said, "You got that, right?" I said, "Of course." I then paid and thought he was a complete cheapass. I told ALL my friends about this incident.
On the fourth chill time we went for drinks. I put in money and he accepted.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not a gold digger by any means. Maybe I sound like one to you now. Therefore, follow the directions listed to the left and click on the big 'X.' I'm not trying to defend myself as to why I'm not a gold digger.
I have gone on vacations with my former boyfriends and out to dinners where I gave money. I hook my man of the moment up. Concert tickets, Yankees vs. Red Socks games, staying out till all hours dancing in Mexico at non-tourist places, and Jets football games! Would I personally spend my money to go to a Jets game for myself? Heck NO! I did it out of love at the time.
I make money! Just in the start of a future relationship, you better be trying to put your best foot forward.
How much worse will he get if he is already acting bad?
On our last and final date this dude met my dog. If a guy meets my dog, consider this pretty serious. HaHa.. For real though I judge how my dog acts around my potentials. I got rid of this guy because he called my dog the ultimate cock block and didn't enjoy his company. Yes buddy, my six-pound dog blocked your ass because you have NO game. Chess players have more game than your pathetic ass.

Okay, so the main reason as to why I'm writing is because I heard from this guy again last night. I hear from him periodically. He kept trying to see me after the dog incident. There is a lot more to this story obviously, but I'm not putting it out there for the world to know my business. You are getting general information here. The introductory course on my dating life. I never will PUT all my business out there, or blog about new potential men. So, I heard from him on New Years Eve night! Thanks for thinking about me. He wanted to know what I was doing. I said what are you trying to invite me out because I'm OUT! It is NYE for crying out loud. And DaDaDunnnn. I heard from him last night...
He thinks about me when he is drunk. How sweet. You really shouldn't have.
Note* Convo starts at 10 p.m. and ends 10 a.m. the next morning.

Him: Hey nechance u wana go runnin tomm morning?
(Clear to see how drunk he is with all these errors. I'm by no means a spelling genius, but it is my pet peeve when a text is so poorly written.)
Me: Hey!! How are you what's up? I'm racing tomorrow in (insert town name here!!) Come to that!
(I had no clue who this was because I erased his number the second I decided I was done with him.)
Him: Good thnks. where's tht
Me: I'm sorry. Who is this? I might not have taken your number down
Him: Mh Y
I receive a phonecall at 1 a.m.!
Me: Please leave me alone. You didn't say who this is... It's way to late to be calling!!!! I'm getting up early!!!! If this is (insert name of different ex bf here) Don't care what you have to say!!!!
I didn't use his name... I used someone else's because at this point I still didn't know who it was.
Him: Hey!! How are you what's up? I'm racing tomorrow in (insert town) Come to that!
So it was clear to see he was copying and pasting our convo around.
Just send them to the blog! They can read all that went down here!
So I called him this morning at 10 a.m. I wanted to get to the bottom of who is calling/texting/bothering me.
Him: Hey really really sorry bout last night! dialed by mistake.. This is (Loser) from my town...
Me: Yeah grow up!
Him: Didn't you invite me to ur race
Me: Yea I thought you were a teammate!
I had no idea who it was, but I know no teammate would be senseless enough to call me at past one am.
Him: Oh

At first the realist didn't like the title of the blog. I think the title is the perfect fit. It is the glass slipper to cinderella's foot...
I wish he went to the race though. I decided not to go last minute because my foot was bothering me. It is better now.

So will this guy strike again? If he does, I will be sure to post. Important lesson to be learned: they always come back! Do not get upset if a guy lets you go for any reason or you let them go. They are never truly gone and ALWAYS come back. So, there never is any reason to get upset.

I also had this happen in October. It was a different guy. He texted and proceeded to call six times. I threatened him with the calling the cops.
The calls finally stopped. Why do people have to be so psycho? If I'm done with you, I'm done with you. You are yesterday's news. Onto the next one!

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