I was happy with the results. Most of them said dinner. Thank God!
I guess these guys are reading up on the blog.
Here is how it went down:
Guy
It's a tough question to answer now cause you need to know the girl you are taking out. There are so many standards now
My opinion: I definitely agree. As long as he isn't trying to get me "sloshed" it is all good. Keep my interest as well as his in mind. Meeting an onliner should be more low key than actually knowing the person previously. Onliners should be a coffee shop or quick one drink and go. If you previously know the guy, it should be dinner!
Guy
In that case I would have to say a nice restaurant not "a bar."
My opinion: This guy is right on. :)
Guy
Dinner
My opinion: I had a human sex class with this guy in college. I asked him if he learned that from human sex. His response: Haha no I learned other nastier things lol. I guess he was implying more likely to get action from dinner.
Guy
Taking someone you care for somewhere special!!! Peace&Love
My opinion: I love this guy!
Guy
Going to a bar for drinks lol jk I read your blog lol
My opinion: A reader!
Guy
Get drunk everywhere!
My opinion: A jokester!
Guy
Take her for some soup with iced tea
My opinion: HaHa I like it! It is original and quirky. Would I always want to go for soup and ice tea? No! But it is original! A brain was required to think this plan out. Does this guy think I'm 97 year old? Maybe~
I would definitely do a guy poll again!
To all the guys that took part thank you in helping us understand your way of thinking!
<3 Disbeliever Disbelieving 24/7
I agree with the first guy. It depends on the girl. But if it is at a bar, he better not try to get the girl drunk! I don't think bars are the way to go, but if you know the person already then whatever. There are "nice" bars. If it's a trashy one then that shows he didn't put much thought into it. As long as it is the guy and girl and they both learn more about each other, then I'd say it's a date. I am not big on settings. As long as you are with the guy then that's all that matters.
ReplyDeleteI'm with Realist...I think it's about the chemistry, conversation, and intent. I've had great drinks dates - wine bars, trendy bars that make fancy cocktails, etc. Taking a girl to a bar doesn't mean he's trying to get her drunk. We're adults and hopefully not too worried about saying no to a 3rd drink or shots!
ReplyDeleteSabrina I stalked your blog tonight! HaHa I agree with you most definately a date is all about the chemistry, conversation, and intent. It all has to be there! It is still nicer to go for dinner than just some bar!! Given the choice between the two opitions I don't think too many people would pick a bar. Although the bars your going to sound super nice!!!
ReplyDeleteI think there's a lot of nice bars out there, maybe your notion is dives but classy wine bars and cocktail lounges are great date spots! I think most of my friends strongly prefer bars to dinner for a first date...it's much quicker to finish a drink than a meal!
ReplyDeleteGlad you're stalking my blog :)