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Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Eviction

Dreams are funny, in that sometimes they seem to come out of nowhere.  We dream about strange things that we haven't thought about in a very long time.  Are they things that are deep within our subconscious?  Or just a combination of lots of neurons firing in our brain that create a combination that might be strange, or that might be strangely familiar, both of which are just a coincidence?  Opinions vary on how dreams work, but whatever the case, I always find them fascinating.

On a personal note, whenever I dream about my ex, it leaves me with strange mixed feelings all day long that I'm not sure how to process.  I can try to cast it aside like it's just neurons firing in a strange way in my brain at night, but the memory of it is still unnerving.  Get out of my brain, ex.

Trying to stay positive,
Skeptic

3 comments:

  1. I'm with you. Certain dreams, especially about boys, leaving me feeling "off" all day. The worst dreams, for me, are the ones where I feel so intensely happy or in love, and then I wake up and realize they aren't real.

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    1. Definitely. In the dream I was so happy, but circumstances were so different than they are in reality. So I'm left with--is it wrong to enjoy that happy feeling if it wasn't real?

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    2. Nothing wrong with enjoying the feeling from dreams! As long as you can separate dreams from reality (as tempting as it is to live in dream-land).

      In my dream last night, all I remember is being hugged tight by a guy who made me feel safe, and it felt so good. Now to find it in reality!

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