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Saturday, November 6, 2010

Shhhh! It’s a Secret Message

There has been a recent surge in my message inbox on Facebook from guys. I have never met two of them, one is my friend’s ex, and one IS my ex. The content ranges from what sounds like an invitation to hookup, to wanting to catch up over “secret messaging.” Secret messaging is my word for guys who do not want to post on my wall for two reasons. Either they don’t want the world to know that they want to “get wild” with me, or that they do not want their girlfriends to see that they are posting on my wall. Sneaky! Don’t worry, girlfriend. I have no intention of stealing your man.

       I live by this dating rule: once an ex, always an ex! I felt so bad for his girlfriend while he was secret messaging me. I would hate if my boyfriend was doing that. I would not trust him. If I found out that my boyfriend was secret messaging other girls, I’d de-friend him from my life!
Secret messaging is shady. I do not like shady people or secrets!

Keepin' it real,
   Realist



Disbeliever in the house!

I agree with all of the above of course. I get my fair share of "come over", "I want to see you," and the "let's hang out" demands!

The icing on the cake experience is from a MARRIED man telling me about his homosexual gang banging tendencies. Then asking me, "Do you think I'm a whore?" Yes have some respect for your wife! Maybe she doesn't want everyone to know what you two guys do sexually. Just a thought...
A. You do not know me like that and I haven't talked to you since we were five.
B. I do not care about your sexcapades!

And my exs will never bother me over Facebook because we are NOT on facebook speaking terms!!! An ex is an ex for a reason...

~K Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7

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