Trying to break up with a guy? Just send him the link to this song. It is very empowering! I think it is the breakup jam. Play it while going to dump his ass!
http://youtu.be/e4jckzKbsf8
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Start Treating them like $hit!
Observation: Ever notice how guys you don't really like are all about you? In the meantime, the guys you do like aren't giving you the time of day!!!! This is because they are about the game ladies.
So treat them all like utter crap and they will like you!
They want the thrill of the chase!
Also if the guy you want now is in some type of relationship don't worry! Your time will come! Most relationships don't work out!
This is all according to the stats~ Don't blame me!!!
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
So treat them all like utter crap and they will like you!
They want the thrill of the chase!
Also if the guy you want now is in some type of relationship don't worry! Your time will come! Most relationships don't work out!
This is all according to the stats~ Don't blame me!!!
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
Working out!
Here is a snippet of convo that took place yesterday at the gym between Realist and Disbeliever:
Disbeliever: I don't know how your coworker thinks guys are hot at this gym. She must have really low standards.
Realist: Yeah, I can't even find a semi-decent guy here...well maybe that one over there in gray on the treadmill.
Disbeliever: Oh shit I "dated" that guy. I'm out of here!
Scene...
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
Disbeliever: I don't know how your coworker thinks guys are hot at this gym. She must have really low standards.
Realist: Yeah, I can't even find a semi-decent guy here...well maybe that one over there in gray on the treadmill.
Disbeliever: Oh shit I "dated" that guy. I'm out of here!
Scene...
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
All flash! No cash!
So I met this guy over the weekend. It was super last minute type of thing!We have been talking. It was time for the meet. I had no Saturday night plans, so I said F-it.. let's meet. He came up with the idea to meet for coffee. I was impressed it wasn't a bar. He said I would never pick that as a first initial meeting spot. We talked for two hours. Over these two hours we talked a lot about: family, school, work, life, religion, dogs, trips, money, money, money, money, money... The money part was just him! At first I thought ~wow~ ok~ not in a good way. I thought maybe he is just proud of what he does, or came into new found money. Everything had a price tag. So very annoying. "My tenant pays for $2,500 for the mortgage and my rent is $500. I should have looked at this place in Hoboken today. I want to rent my other apartment out. I wound up looking at this place today. It was 450,000. I was like WOW! Not at the price tags of these things that he can afford, just "wow" at the fact at naming the price of everything.
Realist thought he was just trying to impress me. At first I thought that is what it was too. Saturday ended. We "hugged" goodbye and said we would see each other soon. I really thought we would at the time. Seemed genuine... I seemed genuine... I was genuine at the time. We have similar interests including working out, running, and skiing/snowboarding. Although, this obviously isn't enough to keep a relationship together. It is a good start to one. It is at least good enough for a second date! I didn't completely dismiss the guy at this point.
We talked Sunday. He wanted to do a dinner that day. On Saturday night he brought it up. I never got in touch about it. That seemed toooo much tooo soon. He also wanted to come to yoga at my gym. He was willing to make time for me, even though he claims to be super busy. All positives. He also taught me some things I didn't know about Mormons.. The church takes care of them for awhile if they are down on their luck. Different random facts like that. Interesting enough to hold my attention. Although all this info can be found on Google!
So Saturday goes by and we end in a hug.. I'll see you blah blah blah
Sunday, still talking. On Monday, we were talking and I wound up telling him that I'm not looking for a quick bang. He was like no way! He said he didn't want that either.. Blah Blah Blah... Haven't heard from him since.
The end. How do I feel about this? Completely fine. He annoyed me anyways. I think everyone should be bluntly honest about what they want up front. Both parties need to know, so no one's feelings get hurt. Everyone needs to be on the same page.
He definitely was on a different page then me. Maybe a different chapter. The cash factor was a way to "pay" me for the bangs I believe.Why else flash around your cash...
Oh well I shall remain headache free! Feels good!
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
Realist thought he was just trying to impress me. At first I thought that is what it was too. Saturday ended. We "hugged" goodbye and said we would see each other soon. I really thought we would at the time. Seemed genuine... I seemed genuine... I was genuine at the time. We have similar interests including working out, running, and skiing/snowboarding. Although, this obviously isn't enough to keep a relationship together. It is a good start to one. It is at least good enough for a second date! I didn't completely dismiss the guy at this point.
We talked Sunday. He wanted to do a dinner that day. On Saturday night he brought it up. I never got in touch about it. That seemed toooo much tooo soon. He also wanted to come to yoga at my gym. He was willing to make time for me, even though he claims to be super busy. All positives. He also taught me some things I didn't know about Mormons.. The church takes care of them for awhile if they are down on their luck. Different random facts like that. Interesting enough to hold my attention. Although all this info can be found on Google!
So Saturday goes by and we end in a hug.. I'll see you blah blah blah
Sunday, still talking. On Monday, we were talking and I wound up telling him that I'm not looking for a quick bang. He was like no way! He said he didn't want that either.. Blah Blah Blah... Haven't heard from him since.
The end. How do I feel about this? Completely fine. He annoyed me anyways. I think everyone should be bluntly honest about what they want up front. Both parties need to know, so no one's feelings get hurt. Everyone needs to be on the same page.
He definitely was on a different page then me. Maybe a different chapter. The cash factor was a way to "pay" me for the bangs I believe.Why else flash around your cash...
Oh well I shall remain headache free! Feels good!
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
Friday, December 9, 2011
Snowboarders~Skiers
Why do they look so dirty to me?
What a disappointment!!!! They all need showers, haircuts and deodorant.
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
What a disappointment!!!! They all need showers, haircuts and deodorant.
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
Guy #1 and Guy #2
My "Guy" convos of today:
Guy #1: Want to go out for drinks this weekend?
Me: Where?
Guy#1: Anywhere you're the boss.
Me: I don't think that is a good idea.
Guy#1: Ok I understand
HaHa what a J-E-R-K... Didn't even begin to mention a second idea. Obviously just wants ass.
These types of people need to stop contacting me permanently!
Guy#2
Guy#2: What are you looking for? Friends? Boyfriend? Fling?
Me: Boyfriend! No flings or friends with benefits. How about yourself?
Guy#2: Just friends. If friends become girlfriends that's cool!
Me: Looking for a girlfriend that is so strange. You kind of just find one.
Guy#2: Yep
What a freaken DUD! A least he cared enough to ask what I was looking for!!!
That made me really happy when he asked the question. Now he is quiet. Just friends. He really means FWB!
There you have it! Males decoded 101!
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
Guy #1: Want to go out for drinks this weekend?
Me: Where?
Guy#1: Anywhere you're the boss.
Me: I don't think that is a good idea.
Guy#1: Ok I understand
HaHa what a J-E-R-K... Didn't even begin to mention a second idea. Obviously just wants ass.
These types of people need to stop contacting me permanently!
Guy#2
Guy#2: What are you looking for? Friends? Boyfriend? Fling?
Me: Boyfriend! No flings or friends with benefits. How about yourself?
Guy#2: Just friends. If friends become girlfriends that's cool!
Me: Looking for a girlfriend that is so strange. You kind of just find one.
Guy#2: Yep
What a freaken DUD! A least he cared enough to ask what I was looking for!!!
That made me really happy when he asked the question. Now he is quiet. Just friends. He really means FWB!
There you have it! Males decoded 101!
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
Thursday, December 8, 2011
What Really Grinds My Gears
You know what really grinds my gears...
Texting. It really grinds my gears. It never amounts to anything ever. It is just a method to string you along. If a guy does not make the effort to see you ladies he does not like you. He is just not that into you.
You know what really grinds my gears.
Guys sending me pictures of themselves. Clothes or without clothes.
Is that supposed to make me want to jump in my car ASAP?
Should I want to rip off your clothes. No.
You know what really grinds my gears...
People telling me I'm not looking in the right spots for guys. Guys are everywhere! It also bothers me when they don't give me a suggestion as where I should look. Okay apparently your ass has the answer, so you tell me!
Tell me where to go.
You know what really grinds my gears...
Cheap men. You're the guy. You should pay. I didn't always think this way. This 73-year old talked my ear off at the gym last week. She said my standards are acceptable. She also said never make the move to pay. If that is the case go out with your girlfriends instead.
You know what really grinds my gears...
Girls that can't keep their legs closed. The second the "love" aspect left sex is the time everyone started having problems with relationships.
You know what else grinds my gears...
F~A~C~E~B~O~O~K Stop poking and secret messaging.
Put it on my main wall.
You know what else really grinds my gears...
People that are not happy with who they are with. Be single if you do not want a relationship instead of complaining about your significant other, or cheating.
That is just some of what grinds my gears.
<3 Disbeliever disbelieving 24/7
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