I have no expectations that this would end up being a date, but it seems like when you're dealing with a complete stranger, there is a certain level of manners that should be met. At least until you get to know a person--then you can be a bit more casual.
This guy didn't say much at all. The following online conversation took place over the course of a week.
- Him: Hey how are you? [Disbeliever] told me you just moved to [new area]. Where in [new area] did you move to?
- Me: Hey there, yeah, I just moved in with my cousin for a while--in [town A], which is sort of near [town B]. She said you were in [new area] too? Somewhere a little closer to the city, like [town C]? Not much out here that I can tell--someone told me about some castle I should go see, but I forgot the name. What else is out here?
- Him: Hey. Yes I'm I'm [town C]. Been here for 5 yrs. it's pretty nice for a small city. Have u been?
- Me: Nope, never been to [town C]. I haven't seen much of any of [new area], actually.
- Him: You should come down to [town C] sometime. I will show you around the area. (###) ###-####
- Me: Cool, that would be fun. Let me know when is good for you. (###) ###-####
- Him: I would suggest tonight since I'm free...but I'm also hungover. There was a [town C] SantaCon yesterday...
Oh well, it isn't a big deal, and I have other things to worry about. We'll see what comes of this.
Trying to stay positive,
Skeptic
<----- Is not responsible for him or his actions haha.. I think you guys would get along great!!!
ReplyDeleteHaha, don't worry about it, I just like giving you shit. Yeah, we'll see how it goes, if he ever suggests a day when he's free (and not hungover). :)
DeleteDamn straight that Sabrina would not like this ambiguity! Zero tolerance for guys who cannot simply plan dates. If they are this wishy-washy about something as simple as "let's get dinner at a specific restaurant at 7pm on Wed", how are they going to be about bigger decisions? I like alpha males who take charge, so maybe it's just me.
ReplyDeleteBall's in his court!